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Writer's pictureRupa Sharma, Bonito Designs

Rediscovering Success: Beyond Materialistic Maze

Updated: Nov 3, 2023

Success is a tapestry woven with threads of personal aspirations and fulfillment

In the not-so-distant past, my concept of success was confined to a narrow corridor paved with material possessions. I was trapped in the never-ending race for things – the bigger house, the shinier car, the corner office with a view, and a bank account that knew no limits. Then, like a plot twist in my own life story, a close friend came into the picture. He shattered my preconceived notions of success, offering me a glimpse into a world where success was not measured in dollars and square footage but in happiness and inner peace. He convinced me to step off the money treadmill and breathe in the joy of simply living.


Success, as I learned, is an enigma with a multitude of faces. It's a kaleidoscope of desires, as

varied as the people I met working in the same organization. Some craved freedom, others

yearned to feel more valued, a few chased the allure of wealth, some coveted impressive job

titles, and a couple secretly dreamed of a bigger office with a view- we'd chuckle.

This shift in perspective wasn't just about me; it was about guiding the next generation. My son, in the throes of 10th grade, was poised to enter the same rat race. My initial expectations were daunting – top of the class, prestigious college, a job in a Fortune 10 company. But I realized that these ambitions could entangle him in the vicious web of comparison and endless proving. So, I passed on the torch of wisdom. I urged him to relish what he did, whether it was excelling in sports, studies, or simply being himself. I shared that success, for him, should be a journey of self-improvement, untethered from materialistic obsessions and the constant scrutiny of others.

Today, my notion of success has evolved. It's no longer about keeping up with the Joneses; it's about being content and leading life on my own terms. Success is personal, as unique as a

fingerprint. It's about uncovering your path, crafting your definition, and focusing on becoming the best version of yourself.


Success is a tapestry woven with threads of personal aspirations and fulfillment. It's a journey where you dictate the destination. It's about breaking free from the chains of comparison and concentrating on self-growth. So, raise a toast to your journey, wherever it leads you, and may you find success in the simple joy of being your best self, whatever that may entail.

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